We often spend countless hours contemplating life-altering decisions, like having a child. The uncertainty can be daunting, as we envision our future and the shape of our family. When faced with such an important choice, making the right decision is paramount. In the case of surrogacy, this involves not only selecting the ideal agency to guide us through the process but also making the crucial decision of who will carry our child.
At Family Aims we are dedicated exclusively to making new families possible with all the necessary support to make that dream a reality. Here’s what you need to know about choosing the right surrogate carrier for you.
What is a surrogate carrier and what is her role?
A gestational carrier is a woman who altruistically agrees to carry another person or couple’s baby. A very important fact is that in surrogacy, the carrier has no genetic connection to the child she carries. The embryo is created using either a donor egg or the future mother’s egg, combined with the future father’s sperm or from a donor.
The role of a gestational carrier is more than just carrying a child; it’s a crucial part of fulfilling someone’s dream of a family. Finding the right woman requires not only medical compatibility but also empathy, dedication, and mutual trust.
Characteristics of an ideal Gestational Carrier
It is impossible to unify the criteria for an ideal gestational carrier because people are different. However, it is important to keep in mind some factors that will help you choose the right person to carry your baby. Some of them are the following:
- Shared values: when we find common ground with someone on ethical and emotional levels, it’s a strong indicator that we’ll get along well with them. This connection is especially important when selecting a surrogate, as she will be someone with whom you will share unique and significant moments throughout the gestation period.
- Good communication: in this type of process, it is essential to value sincere and fluid communication, as this will allow you to face all the stages in a harmonious way.
- Emotional health: even though agencies conduct a thorough selection process, it is crucial that you feel comfortable with the person who will carry your child. Ensuring that she has the emotional tools necessary to handle the process is essential for a positive experience.
A precise and careful selection procedure
It takes much more than just looking at a list of qualifications to find the ideal surrogate candidate. It is a procedure in which both parties must feel comfortable, understood and confident: it is more than a mere formality.
At Family Aims, we work to establish an open and mutually beneficial experience, sensitively assisting surrogates and expectant parents at every stage.
The key elements we consider when choosing our surrogates are:
- Compatibility: We think that the compatibility of the parents and the possible gestational carriers is the first step towards a successful relationship. We take this seriously since we know how important it is for parents to feel calm and secure. We ensure that they can make their decision based on their values, those which are significant to them.
- Medical evaluation: a team of medical professionals thoroughly assesses the gestational carrier to ensure her physical health and well-being to rule out any ailment that could compromise her integrity as well as the integrity of the unborn child.
- Psychological evaluation: we also conduct a psychological evaluation, as we recognize that health is holistic. We relate exclusively with women who, with selflessness and immense inner strength, are dedicated to helping others create the family of their dreams.
Comprehensive process support and emotional assistance
At Family Aims, we pride ourselves on being a fully supportive surrogacy agency that ensures that both the intended parents and the gestational carriers feel accompanied and supported every step of the way.
Surrogacy can be an emotionally charged experience. To help you manage your emotions, we connect you with top-notch medical professionals who prioritize your overall well-being. They will provide you with the support you need according to your situation, circumstances and context.
Your family is our mission at Family Aims
Finding the right surrogate is an essential step on the path to surrogacy parenthood. At Family Aims, we are committed to facilitating this search with care and dedication, ensuring that both intended parents and surrogates have a positive and fulfilling experience.
If you are looking to begin your journey towards creating your family, we are here to help you build that wonderful story of love and life. If you want to learn more about the process, continue reading our blog.